This book considers the likely existence of a gene responsible (or at least jointly responsible) for our desire to live as a couple and for us falling in love (this being understood as the exclusive, violent, possessive and total attraction toward a person which strikes us every once in a while). As its pages gradually reveal, the origin of these phenomena cannot be reduced (at least not only) to cultural-type influences, as has been maintained for centuries, but rather would be favoured by our …
Read moreThis book considers the likely existence of a gene responsible (or at least jointly responsible) for our desire to live as a couple and for us falling in love (this being understood as the exclusive, violent, possessive and total attraction toward a person which strikes us every once in a while). As its pages gradually reveal, the origin of these phenomena cannot be reduced (at least not only) to cultural-type influences, as has been maintained for centuries, but rather would be favoured by our biology and our genetic heritage. This gene would have first existed in hominids prior to our species (most probably, as the authors specify later in another book (2) and in some articles posted on the Internet (3), in homo ergaster, coinciding with the drastic reduction in body differences between the sexes which took place in that species). This would explain our preference for living as a couple, the existence of those passions which have proven to be a headache for all thinkers and even the presence of jealousy. However, the action of this gene, decisive in the behaviour of those prehominids, would now be much weaker, more confused and sporadic in the face of the rules, imposition and direction of our sophisticated brain and the important changes of habitat that our lives have experienced. It also envisages the possible existence of variations in the presence of this gene which could help us to explain the important differences in individual behaviour as far as our sexual relations are concerned, and even the possibility that its action could be restricted (or boosted) in one of the sexes.
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Their theories have not a wide impact (indeed they have almost been ignored), but some of the latest scientific discoveries appear to support them. Thus, a group of Swedish researchers from the Karolinska Institutet (4) demonstrated that the AVPR1A gene, responsible for the monogamy of other species (5), also acts in our species, increasing the fidelity and quality of a couple’s relationship (although its action appears to be restricted to the male), although the difference in behaviour between carriers of the active gene and of a faulty, and therefore inactive, gene is fairly weak and thus not sufficiently demonstrative. It is true that their work mainly studied the effect that the presence of this gene appears to have on the stability of the couple (only couples who had lived together for five or more years were studied), to the extent that it has been called the fidelity or monogamy gene. It is, however, almost impossible for this gene to be able to fulfil this mission without its activity being reflected in an inclination, an affection and a very special fondness which, although it emerges in the innermost part of our biology (in that mysterious area that poets call the heart), will rise into our consciousness as a special feeling very close to what we usually call falling in love. The AVPR1A gene may therefore be that “love gene” whose existence this book anticipated (6, 7, 8).
Later Bibliography
(1) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero, Marisa Lario Herrero y Santiago Lario Ladrón: El gen del amor, Ediciones del Bronce, Barcelona, 1996.
(2) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero y Santiago Lario Ladrón: Condenados a amar, El Cobre, Barcelona, 2002.
(3) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero y Santiago Lario Ladrón: Homo sapiens: ¿una especie monógama? A Parte Rei, 2003.
(4) Hasse Walum, Lars Westberg, Susanne Henningsson, Jenae M. Neiderhiser, David Reiss, Wilmar Igl, JODY M. Ganiban, Erica L. Spotts, Nancy L. Pedersen, Elias Eriksson and Paul Lichtenstein: Genetic variation in the vasopressin receptor 1a gene (AVPR1A) associates with pair-bonding behaviour in humans,Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 105, (37) 2008.
(5) Miranda M. Lim and Enhanced Partner: Preference in a promiscuous species by manipulating the expression of a single gene, Nature 429, (2004).
(6) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero. El gen de la monogamia podría actuar
también en humanos. Tendencias 21, 2008.
(7) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero y Santiago Lario Ladrón. ¿Se ha encontrado ya el gen del amor? A Parte Rei, 2009.
(8) Luis Santiago Lario Herrero y Santiago Lario Ladrón: La antropología de Deus caritas est. A Parte Rei, 2007.