Autistic speakers commonly report feelings of being misunderstood. Where communication is concerned, such misunderstandings manifest when the communicative intentions of an autist—i.e., an autistic person—are misinterpreted
by their interlocutor(s). While in some cases this can lead to seemingly benign kinds of miscommunication, such as when someone takes what was intended as a genuine assertion or question as a joke, the same basic phenomenon can also lead
to illegitimate criticism of the autis…
Read moreAutistic speakers commonly report feelings of being misunderstood. Where communication is concerned, such misunderstandings manifest when the communicative intentions of an autist—i.e., an autistic person—are misinterpreted
by their interlocutor(s). While in some cases this can lead to seemingly benign kinds of miscommunication, such as when someone takes what was intended as a genuine assertion or question as a joke, the same basic phenomenon can also lead
to illegitimate criticism of the autist—e.g., for being ‘rude’ or ‘weird’. I argue that such misunderstandings, given their frequency, cause serious harm to members of the autistic community and propose that the frequency of autists being so
misunderstood can be explained by a sort of intellectual arrogance often exhibited by allistic (non-autistic) interlocutors. Allistic speakers have a tendency to smuggle certain assumptions into the conversational backdrop because they take these
assumptions to simply be matters of ‘common sense’. Yet—as far as I am aware—no principled, much less predictive, account has been provided to explain where such assumptions are actually coming from. My suggestion is that the dogmatic way that
allistic speakers tend to rely on their ‘common sense’ assumptions in the interpretation of conversational exchanges opens them up to misunderstanding the intentions of others in potentially harmful ways.